Comments on: Day Two – Thirty Days To Communications Lesson – Non Verbal Vs. Verbal Communication http://nlpcopywriting.com/day-two-thirty-days-to-communications-lesson-non-verbal-vs-verbal-communication/ Harlan Kilstein's NLP Copywriting Blog Tue, 02 Aug 2011 16:06:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Phil http://nlpcopywriting.com/day-two-thirty-days-to-communications-lesson-non-verbal-vs-verbal-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-18 Phil Sun, 04 Jan 2009 00:06:27 +0000 http://nlpcopywriting.com/?p=41#comment-18 Hey Dr. Kilstein, Happy New Year to you! I immediately jumped to this site as soon as I got the email notification. I believe this is going to be GREAT stuff! Now let's see what we've learned so far... (Day 2 assignment:Start paying attention to incongruity in communication) Hmmm... Ok, its about 6:35pm EST at the time of this posting, and based on your last 20 seconds, I was looking forward to "seeing" at much earlier time today. Dunno, if I'm getting ahead of myself here, since there's still about 5 hours left today. Would pointing out the aforementioned observation be "stretching" the definition of incongruity we supposed to be on the look out for? ;) I'm pulling your leg Harlan! :D I know you're quite a busy man and highly paid business owner, whom I follow RELIGIOUSLY, albeit behind the scenes. All the same, I look forward to Day 3 (Jan 3) Keep up the great work buddy! Phil. P.S. - Oh by the way! Everyone knows - or should know - that video recording these posts is(was) done over a couple of sessions, sometimes on the same day. Nevertheless, it may help us better if you keep of change of SHIRTS next to the camera man! :) So that when you say "see you tomorrow", one would "think" you've ACTUALLY recorded day 1 stuff...gone to bed...woken up...taken a shower...and changed clothes. :) :) :) That way, your "see you tomorrow" (verbally) is congruent with your non-verbal (changed shirt...at least what the camera can see ;) ) You know what, I'm starting to think I'm REALLY getting this incongruity stuff WRONG and getting out of wack! HELP! P.P.S. - I'm refreshing the site on another tab so I'm posting while you're actually posting Day 3, wearing a different shirt :) :) :) Hey Dr. Kilstein,

Happy New Year to you!

I immediately jumped to this site as soon as I got the email notification.

I believe this is going to be GREAT stuff!

Now let’s see what we’ve learned so far…

(Day 2 assignment:Start paying attention to incongruity in communication)

Hmmm…

Ok, its about 6:35pm EST at the time of this posting, and based on your last 20 seconds, I was looking forward to “seeing” at much earlier time today.

Dunno, if I’m getting ahead of myself here, since there’s still about 5 hours left today.

Would pointing out the aforementioned observation be “stretching” the definition of incongruity we supposed to be on the look out for? ;)

I’m pulling your leg Harlan! :D

I know you’re quite a busy man and highly paid business owner, whom I follow RELIGIOUSLY, albeit behind the scenes.

All the same, I look forward to Day 3 (Jan 3)

Keep up the great work buddy!

Phil.

P.S. – Oh by the way! Everyone knows – or should know – that video recording these posts is(was) done over a couple of sessions, sometimes on the same day.

Nevertheless, it may help us better if you keep of change of SHIRTS next to the camera man! :)

So that when you say “see you tomorrow”, one would “think” you’ve ACTUALLY recorded day 1 stuff…gone to bed…woken up…taken a shower…and changed clothes. :) :) :)

That way, your “see you tomorrow” (verbally) is congruent with your non-verbal (changed shirt…at least what the camera can see ;) )

You know what, I’m starting to think I’m REALLY getting this incongruity stuff WRONG and getting out of wack!

HELP!

P.P.S. – I’m refreshing the site on another tab so I’m posting while you’re actually posting Day 3, wearing a different shirt :) :) :)

]]> By: Perry Droast http://nlpcopywriting.com/day-two-thirty-days-to-communications-lesson-non-verbal-vs-verbal-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-16 Perry Droast Fri, 02 Jan 2009 20:37:43 +0000 http://nlpcopywriting.com/?p=41#comment-16 Harlan, Incongruous messaging seems to come naturally to some people. I've had copywriting clients that had conflicting copy and couldn't spot it. When I pointed it out, they still required an explanation before getting it. As someone that hasn't studied NLP I'm thankful you're doing this. So far, really good stuff. Harlan,

Incongruous messaging seems to come naturally to some people.

I’ve had copywriting clients that had conflicting copy and couldn’t spot it. When I pointed it out, they still required an explanation before getting it.

As someone that hasn’t studied NLP I’m thankful you’re doing this.

So far, really good stuff.

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