Are You A Dom Or A Sub? by Harlan Kilstein | Jan 20, 2009 | Uncategorized | 1 comment 1 Comment .Nina Bryant on February 2, 2009 at 8:46 pm Hello Dr. Kilstein, Hearing you lecture is really helping me understand and appreciate NLP concepts and techniques. Your examples bring home the lessons on a deep level for me. Thanks for all your time and effort presenting these invaluable lessons. I’m sending all my friends to this site. I hope they’re smart enough to follow through with all 30 days AND buy your recorded programs. Q: What does the heading on this clip mean? “Are you a Dom or a Sub?” Thanks again. Nina B.