Is the goal of personal change work to be nice or to be effective?
Some of the most effective NLP interventions haven’t been very nice?
When Tony Robbins asked a woman crying her eyes out, “Who peed on your face?” It wasn’t particularly nice.
But it was effective.
It interrupted the patten and enabled the woman to deal with her problem.
When Richard Bandler finds out a certain tonality disturbs a person and deliberately uses it again and again to move a client, he isn’t being particularly nice.
But he is being effective.
So how can you know when you’ve gone too far?
The key is rapport.
When you are working one on one, in person or on the phone, you can maintain your rapport.
But when you are working via copy, how can you check rapport?
For example, one fabulously successful site created negative rapport with the readers. It was called “RIch Jerk.”
People actually looked forward to his insults.
I wrote an email for him to mail and it was filled with insults. But his audience loved it.
What made people stay with that copy despite it’s insults?
If this video doesn’t have meaning to you, it’s likely you’ve never witnessed someone really bad at NLP try to help someone. Hope you enjoy it. Please leave your comments below. [Video created by Kristen Farris.]
One of my favorite sayings is “the only person who likes change is a wet baby.” If you think about it, most people don’t change very readily.
They dig in their heels and defend themselves saying, “It’s my way or the highway.”
Getting someone to change a single bad trait could take a lifetime of work… or…
It could take 25 minutes.
The first hypnotic induction I ever learned rapidly became my favorite. Using this exact hypnotic induction I was able to:
cure dozens of teenagers who secretly wet their beds
help people who were unable to grieve for a close relative
cure a severe eating disorder
help someone eliminate a lifetime of angry tantrums and outbursts
assist students in increasing their grades on college entrance exams
and so much more
Learning how to induce trance is the single biggest mystery that faces new students of NLP and hypnosis when it’s really quite simple.
Using this video I’ve created you will discover: the indicators of trance. You’ll be able to see what happens to the clients eyes, their facial muscles, their head position, and their breathing.
How did you get their eyes to close? Watch the simple steps I’ll show you.
What do you say to the person so you match their internal experience? Follow along with the transcript I provide.
Finally, how can you make a hypnotic experience so pleasant, people want to savor every minute. I’m about to reveal this right now.
A number of years ago, I created a recording of a hypnotic induction of a young woman. It was a combination of work I learned from Erickson and Dobson.
I demonstrate a classic NLP version of the 5-4-3-2-1 induction. This step-by-step induction makes it simple to learn. Let’s put it this way, if you had just one hypnosis technique to have under your belt, this would be the one.
It’s nearly impossible to learn hypnosis from a book alone because you don’t know what to look for. But if you have a good teaching DVD, it makes it simple.
YES – you can learn a hypnosis induction from this DVD.
YES – you will be able to hypnotize someone after watching this DVD and going over the explanation.
YES – you can learn the exact words to say that will rapidly induce trance.
YES – you get to watch the subject as she goes into trance. And you get to see the effect of my words on her.
YES – you’ll learn the language patterns used by Milton Erickson and the founders of NLP.
NO – you won’t be left guessing what to do because you get a complete transcript.
NO – you don’t have to figure out what I’m doing because you also get a complete commentary.
I put this recording away until I listened to a number of examples of really bad hypnosis. So I dug out the old recording and did something I’ve never done before.
I had my work transcribed and I annotated what I was doing during the induction and trancework.
You’ll see a real good clean Erickson induction. You’ll see some sophisticated anchoring and working with the clients weakest systems. (I’ll also explain why.)
I am now letting people who want to learn more about hypnosis and would like to see and study a live induction to get a copy of the DVD.
You’ll get the DVD of the Hypnotic Induction. You’ll also get a CD containing both a clean transcript of the induction and the induction with my commentary.
This DVD will show you the exact steps you can take to help someone you love and care about. This is the first step in bringing about change.
Sometimes, to help someone change – you don’t need to create a tidal wave.
Sometimes, just kicking a pebble that creates ripples is all that you need.
Become a pebble kicker!
You can get your copy now for just $67 plus shipping and handling.
Of course, you can return it up to a year after purchase for a refund
How To Simply And Effectively Induce Hypnotic Trance
I own every book on Ericksonian hypnosis except one. It’s deliberate.
It’s called Hypnotic Realities by Erickson and Rossi. The book begins with a hypnotic induction that Erickson demonstrates.
Rossi the faithful scribe is going to jot down the words and explain them.
And 30 seconds into the induction, Rossi notes – at this point Erickson stopped his induction and started telling a story. It’s like Igor in the Young Frankenstein clip above. They misread the signs and make a critical mistake.
How that made me upset. The man was literally sitting next to Milton Erickson and was completely clueless about what his teacher was doing.
The story was part of the induction!
Instead, generations of people who refer to that book will learn incorrectly.
Learning how to induce trance is the single biggest mystery that faces new students of NLP and hypnosis.
You have to learn the indicators of trance. What happens to the clients eyes? Their facial muscles? Their head position? Their breathing?
How did you get their eyes to close? People sometimes spend 20 or 30 minutes just to get eye closure.
What do you say to the person so you match their internal experience?
Finally, how can you make a hypnotic experience so pleasant, people want to savor every minute. I’m about to reveal this right now.
A number of years ago, I created a recording of a hypnotic induction of a young woman. It was a combination of work I learned from Erickson and Dobson.
I demonstrate a classic NLP version of the 5-4-3-2-1 induction. This step-by-step induction makes it simple to learn. Let’s put it this way, if you had just one hypnosis technique to have under your belt, this would be the one.
It’s nearly impossible to learn hypnosis from a book alone because you don’t know what to look for. But if you have a good teaching DVD, it makes it simple.
YES – you can learn an Ericksonian induction from this DVD.
YES – you will be able to hypnotize someone after watching this DVD and going over the explanation.
YES – you can learn the exact words to say that will rapidly induce trance.
YES – you get to watch the subject as she goes into trance. And you get to see the effect of my words on her.
YES – you’ll learn the language patterns used by Milton Erickson and the founders of NLP.
NO – you won’t be left guessing what to do because you get a complete transcript.
NO – you don’t have to figure out what I’m doing because you also get a complete commentary.
I put this recording away until I listened to a number of examples of really bad hypnosis. So I dug out the old recording and did something I’ve never done before.
I had my work transcribed and I annotated what I was doing during the induction and trancework.
You’ll see a real good clean Erickson induction. You’ll see some sophisticated anchoring and working with the clients weakest systems. (I’ll also explain why.)
[This induction is the number one induction I teach that is directly transferable to copywriting.]
I am now letting people who want to learn more about hypnosis and would like to see and study a live induction to get a copy of the DVD.
You’ll get the DVD of the Hypnotic Induction. You’ll also get a CD containing both a clean transcript of the induction and the induction with my commentary.
Here’s how I recommend you get the most out of the DVD.
Watch it once and do what Dr Dobson called “tail gate.” Jump aboard the hypnosis experience and go inside. Experience the hypnosis. There’s some powerful self-esteem boosting work at the end.
The second time, watch it and pay attention to the client. Focus only on the client.
The third time, watch the DVD and pay attention to the interaction between myself and the client.
Finally, pull out the commentary and watch it again.
Many years ago, Gary Halbert wrote a very short sales letter for his “Coat of Arms” project. That short sales letter made millions and millions of dollars. It may just be the shortest yet most successful sales letters of all time.
This DVD will show you the essentials of an Ericksonian hypnotic induction.
You can get your copy now for just $67 plus shipping and handling.
Of course, you can return it up to a year after purchase for a refund.
If they turned out doctors the way they turned out hypnotists, people would die like flies.
Most hypnotists don’t know that they don’t know.
It goes back to a classic debate on the style of hypnosis.
There is the direct authoritarian style hypnosis. “You will go deeply into a trance.”
Or there is the Ericksonian permissive style, “I’m curious if you are comfortable enough to allow your eyes to close.”
Well, which gets better results?
At best, 20% of the population responds to direct suggestion. That means if you use direct hypnosis, 80% of the population is going to show no results – other than getting annoyed.
The Ericksonian permissive style allows you – as Erickson said – to do something new with every patient you meet.
My teacher Dave Dobson used to say when you are doing hypnosis, there is an amazing feedback device in front of you. It’s called a client.
Yet most people who do direct hypnosis don’t pay any attention to the client.
What do they pay attention to? Their script!
When I opening my hypnosis office, I interviewed a lot of hypnotists. My interview was to put them in the room with a volunteer client and watch them on closed-circuit camera.
One lady came into the room, found out the client wanted to lose weight, didn’t bother to ask any questions, went out of the room to her car to get her script, and read it to the patient.
When I asked, why didn’t you look at the patient she answered, “I didn’t need to. I had the script in front of me.”
Other people play the deeper deeper game.
In this game, they are concerned about how deep the patient goes.
Depth of trance has nothing to do with the EFFECTIVENESS of trance.
In an Erickson video featuring “Monde” Erickson has her age-regreess with her eyes wide open. She also demonstrates positive hallucinations.
Good hypnosis has nothing to do with “deeper deeper.” It has to do with matching the suggestion to the client.
Since the dawn of time the debate has continued. The best copywriters in the world amass huge swipe files.
They trade their swipes like kids trade baseball cards.
“I’ll give you a Willie Mays and Hank Aaron for a Mickey Mantle.”
“I’ll give you a rare Carlton B2B letter and an unpublished Halbert ad for a Jim Rutz magalog.”
Learning how to artfully swipe is probably the most important skill a copywriter can have.
Unless you’ve never written a word of copy in your life yet position yourself as an expert.
Recently, such an expert (who was recently fired from their job for blowing off their biggest JV partner who made them millions) proclaimed that swiping is bad form.
Hope they share that with the Wall Street Journal.
Their famous Wall Street Journal letter was a swipe of an early 20th century letter.
And the new control was a direct swipe of the former control (even word for word).
But for this NON-EXPERT swiping isn’t copy.
Excuse me. That’s Dan Kennedy on the other line. He just spit up his coffee because he NEVER writes copy. He just swipes his old stuff again and again.
Now if you’re swiping copy by plugging in word for word, you’re totally missing the boat.
There’s an ART to swiping copy.
And I showed how all the top copywriters do it.
And at a seminar years ago, I brought in the legendary David Gordon who modeled me live and discovered the secrets of how I produce million dollar swipes time after time.
Now, you can sit and stare at the blank screen for hours being “original.”
Or you can swipe a killer letter and be pretty much guaranteed of a home run.
Which would you choose?
I’ve made my choice quite clear.
Since my birthday is coming up, I’ve lowered the price on The Art of The Swipe.
